How Often do you Spank your Wife
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Girl-friend?
Former Retired company boss - conservation, countryman. Author has 572 answers and 1M answer views:
Regularly. Mind you, she loves it! If she is feeling horny, a frequent occurrence, she will play up, wind me up or just be bratty. A spanking will turn her on enormously, bare hand or a paddle. Then, because I am the master, I will walk away, deny her the hard screw that she is craving, to her extreme annoyance. However, I will not make her wait very long, because spanking her has made me very horny too! We are soon at it, full on: hey ho!!!
Tj1955
Lives in Wichita, KS (1955–present) Author has 167 answers and 245.7K answer views:
2 or 3 times a week, sometimes more. A few years ago she explained to me that she enjoys the pain / pleasure of a good paddling. I have made a couple of wooden paddles, a couple of paddles with heavy leather loops on the end & we have 1 particular belt for it. I usually let her choose what I use but not always. We do have a safe word for her to end the spanking because, at first she would tell me how much it was hurting & I'd stop, but she told me to keep spanking her. I generally ask if she's needing a good paddling to key her up for it, but occasionally she will tell me she wants a red ass spanking. 90% of the time there's some great sex after the spanking! It was strange to me in the beginning but now I do it because it's what she wants.
I think it's because she was a very bratty child & her parents didn't discipline her. She even did a little jail time for weed, but there weren't any consequences from her parents. Plus, she has a management role at her job & it reverses the roles when I put her over my knee or the edge of the bed or wherever & paddle her.
Matthew Klewin
Former Geologist (1988–2020) Author has 593 answers and 2.9M answer views:
Every time we have sex. She loves it when I spank her and call her all sorts of names she gets herself off. She cums really hard as I spank her.
Adam
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Originally Answered: How often do you spank your wife?
I spank her every day. Each morning I give her 5 reminder swats by a belt. She needs that to behave better. Also, she can get later a punishment spankings for her misbehave.
Jayla Kay
Author has 66 answers and 1.8M answer views:
Related: How many wives get spanked at home?
I am spanked by my husband of many years. We are happily married and I am only spanked for discipline. I also am spanked as maintenance once a week. It might seem overkill but we just do it to set the week, put our focus on our roles within the marriage and establish priorities. It’s also sometimes the only time I get disciplined in the week for behavior that occurred earlier because discipline can’t be administered when kids are within earshot. We have a strong patriarchal marriage, are very in love. I am spanked very hard and for as long as my husband sees fit.
Anonymous:
Originally Answered: How often do you spank your wife?
Just like with children, in the early stages of my marriage there was a lot of spanking. I had to lay down the law and ensure she understood her duties as a wife. There was disciplining and also maintenance spanking. I used to spank her on a schedule as well as for infractions. I used to use a strap and a paddle initially. Furthermore I used to use spankings as a primary turn on before sex, just so that she was In the right frame of mind to properly please me in bed. However, after a couple years and a couple kids she does not need as many spankings. Neither maintenance nor disciplinary. We have retaining spanking in bed because she enjoys it however now, all I have to do is scold or give a stern look and she will settle down.
Jelena Johnson
Former Healthcare Author has 584 answers and 5M answer views
Originally Answered: How often should a husband spank his wife?
Dr Dorothy Spencer once said not more than twice in a day. And that happened to me a few times. The first year of marriage I was spanked twice a week. Then less each year after that. My answer is- as often as needed
Anonymous
Originally Answered: How often do you spank your wife?
In my opinion that a woman's bottom should never become too ‘fresh’ in a marriage. I mean this both literally a figuratively. Fresh as in rude as well as un-spanked.
I am a firm believer in the expression ‘dont spank in the face, God has provided a better place. Women naturally have large and fully bottocks with ample padding. Their buttocks are almost designed to be spanked, especially as adults.
A woman should find herself across her husband’s knee at least once a day. A daily spanking does not need to be extremely hard, nor does it need to bring her to tears. It does not need to be a punishment in other words. However, she needs to be reminded more often than not of her place frequently with all of these blue haired, land-whale feminists filling women’s heads with garbage.
She will become less comfortable with running up her husband’s credit card bill, being rude and lazy if she knows her seat can be warmed beyond a couple swats a day.
Anne Freeman
Author has 4.3K answers and 8.5M answer views:
Related: Do you still get spankings?
I'm hoping to get one soon. I sure could use it
Shayla
Author has 63 answers and 492.2K answer views:
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How often does your man spank you?
He spanks me any time he feels the need to. If I done something wrong he will explain why I am getting spanked before during and after the spanking. And if he feels like I need a maintenance spanking then so be it.
Aron
Knows Spanish Author has 294 answers and 917.6K answer views:
I spank my wife as often as she needs it. When she’s earned a spanking she gets one. I will spank her for disrespect, for being irresponsible with her work, for disobedience, or for lying. These days she gets spanked every few months, but early on in marriage it was every few weeks. The exception would be if I am seeing her slip in her attitude for a time, while not committing a serious infraction, I will spank her to remind her of the right attitude to have. It works, and is very effective in turning around bad behavior, or poor attitude. She gets right back to work and behaves well after being spanked.
Karin
Former Retired Legal Secretary Author has 405 answers and 3.1M answer views
Related: As a spanked wife, how often are you spanked?
He spanks me as often as needed whenever my behaviour or attitude gives him a reason for disapproval. It can be twice a week, and there can be more than a month between him needing to discipline me; it depends on my behaviour. What matters is that when I need and deserve punishment, he does not hesitate, and the deserved spanking is unavoidable and severe, so afterwards, there is no doubt that I got punished as needed and deserved. Typically I get 15-18 spankings in a year.
Robin Wright
Homemaker at Wright's Paradise (1995–present) Author has 652 answers and 6.8M answer views
Related: Are you spanked often?
Very often and I thank God for it. 99% of the spankings I receive are for both our pleasure and I can’t imagine life without them.
David Morgan
I always kept a camera handy over our 19 years of marriage:
Related: What is it like watching your wife get spanked?
Seven months after we married I went with my wife to an Xmas party at the house of one of her senior colleagues. Very late on with not many of us still standing a game of ‘spin the bottle’ suddenly got underway and being the only female left my wife was very much the centre of attention! And one of her forfeits was to accept a spanking from the man who was at the time her supervisor. I was very jealous, embarrassed myself as my wife was manhandled, but found it very very erotic indeed, the night I realised that I was quite a voyeur.
Karin
Former Retired Legal Secretary Author has 405 answers and 3.1M answer views:
Related: As a spanked wife or girlfriend, have you been spanked outdoors?
My husband has many times scolded me and repeatedly smacked me on my clothed bottom or bare thighs in the garden or on the patio. In other places, he also several times took me aside and, in the same way, warned me of what awaited me at home if I not behaved, and on rare occasions, he has given me a sound full-scale bare bottom spanking outdoors.
For instance, once we were on holiday in Austria and drove from Innsbruck to Vienna, I slept poorly and was moody and quarrelsome when we got out of bed. My husband got enough of my quarrelsomeness and pulled the car over at a lay-by. He made me cut a pliable hazel switch, and I got a thorough bare-bottom spanking with it bent over a picnic table.
It was awful and left a set of nasty swollen welts across my bottom, but it had the desired effect; I behaved like a saint during the rest of the holiday.
Anonymous
Related: Is it normal to spank your wife?
Does a respectful, loving, and caring man spank his wife? Only if you love her. If your wife is naughty and you love her enough to give her needed discipline, then by all means give her a spanking.
Such a spanking is best delivered behind closed doors, perhaps in your bedroom; she is entitled to privacy when she is disciplined. You could sit down on the bed and have her stand before you as you tell her the reason she is getting spanked. As you lecture her, you can be unzipping and opening her pants or lifting her dress, depending upon how she is attired. As you guide her across your lap, you could pull down her panties. Once she is properly positioned with her bottom high, you slap her bottom. Be sure you have a good grip on her as you slap her bottom again, but somewhat harder. Keep spanking until you like the color of her bottom. Hopefully, her honey pot is dripping at this point. Then you make love.
Megan Padgett
Related: What is the best implement to spank your wife?
My boyfriend uses a wooden bath brush on me when I really misbehave. It packs quite the punch and leaves some nice bruises. Even though it hurts, I love every punishment he dishes out to me, because it's consensual and dished out with love.
From Modern Man Magazine
November 1960
Reading between the lines, the advert clearly suggests strong sexual overtones to wife-spanking, and not any type of abuse as no doubt many modern wokes would suggest. But 1950s America was full of the issue; see below.
