Some Random Thoughts on
the Spanking of Young Ladies.
A long-standing member of Moonglow, now sadly deceased, often quoted the following saying: There is only one place a man can hit a woman and remain a gentleman. I am not sure where he got the saying from, but I do remember a scene on the BBC in the early sixties. A middle-aged lady watches her daughter's boyfriend threaten to hit her daughter. She grabs his arm with the crook of her umbrella and says something very similar.
Especially in the popular press, people, usually
bosses, who spank ladies are figures to be pilloried, as well as good
copy. Nevertheless, Moonglow is about men who enjoy the topic as well as
those charming ladies who do as well; according the Kinsey study, that
is the 18% of ladies who find the idea of being spanked erotic and
actually have enjoyed being spanked. Who knows how many would like to be
but have missed out?
Perhaps the starting point is defining the boundaries. In Moonglow, our parameters are the application of the hand, paddle, cane or other mutually agreed instrument to the female posterior. Striking anywhere else, using such force that skin is broken or restraint is outside our limits.
One interesting aspect of this scene is the difference between the two sides of the bedroom door. Many ladies who enjoy being spanked are in high pressure, authoritative jobs. Spanking is a marvellous escape; (Of course it works the other way round as well!) the conceding of control to someone else for a short period of time!
Of course to deny that spanking has strong sexual overtones is absurd. Nevertheless sex cannot be part of the club's activities. The club contributes to that fantasy world that members take home with them, be they men or women. Hopefully, however, their level of expertise will also have increased so that, when it is used in private, it will contribute that much more to everyone's mutual pleasure.
Any experienced spanker will vouch for the fact that spanking generates powerful erotic responses. It is undeniable that many women, frigid in straight sex, will orgasm rapidly following a spanking. Some women will even "cum" during a spanking. Of course, some of it is a straight physical effect. Writhing around clearly stimulates the clitoris, and the heat of a red bottom flows through the body. But there is also a strong mental aspect, as the mixture of pain and pleasure acts as a massive cerebral stimulant. It is often the basis of masturbatory fantasies for weeks to come.
Hand spanking is the start of most games; Skin on skin is very powerful and intimate. The experienced spanker always starts slowly and builds, in speed and intensity. A slowly warmed bottom increases the lady's pleasure in every way; the final crescendo will be that much more satisfying!
Self-evidently, in a first session where the two people are in the early stage of a relationship, it may be better to start with smacking over a dress or trousers, then move onto the panties and finally the bare as a natural progression.
In due course, in any relationship, the participants will move onto heavier tools. Of course, the sensations will be that much more intense, leading to higher levels of pleasure. The idea of bending over for six of the best with the cane can be a very exciting experience for a lady, perhaps also representing a way of assuaging guilt, driven into her by religious teachings. Watch her caress her stripes!
Anyone who thinks that spanking is a form of misogynism should ask those ladies who finally experience long awaited sexual pleasure after years of failure with straight sex!
Some true life observations
Above, a postcard sent by a young lady to a friend.
X-factor - ITV November 2007
Spanking of course now is very near the mainstream.
Take this clip for example: Play
Sex Tips for Girls
Channel Four - October 2001
Red bloodied females who are not ashamed of their proclivities: Play
This play, off-Broadway comedy, was put on at the Lucille Lortel Theater in NewYork in 2015.
The sex farce has all but disappeared from the contemporary stage and those of you mourning its demise should have gone to watch “Permission,” a new play by Robert Askins. In this sex comedy with a twist — or rather a kink — two God-loving young couples discover corporal punishment as a way of spicing up their sex lives, or alleviating the tensions in their marriages, or a little of both. You can see two of the actors discussing the play here: Play
Fiona Gubelmann Explains How To be a Christian but Kinky Daytime Diva. Here is another take on the modern approach to spanking. Play
There you are! Christianity and Spanking can go hand in hand.
"I spank my wife for her pleasure, not mine" Now what could be more repectable than the UK Times newspaper. Yet on 2nd Feb 2008, it ran a story with this title. If ever there was evidence of how important spanking is to some women, read this. Read
And finally here is clip from the Daily Bedpost where they ask a number of young people for their views on Spanking. Play
For more information from the female perspective, also read Sarah Veitch and the Female Spanking Authors
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